Love- A good feeling or a lesson???

In life, it is very important to have a partner. In school, it may appear very childish, we often classify a liking towards the other person as an infatuation, a crush etc. As we proceed to our college life, for some it is a status symbol to have a girlfriend / boyfriend and claim to have inseparable love towards each other, for some it’s a search for a ‘special’ person in life, with whom they would like to live their life ahead. The search for the ‘special’ person in life does not have to start necessarily at our college time, it can happen to us anywhere, may be way back at school, college life, working life… All of us, somewhere realize that we need a partner in our life, we need to be loved, someone to share our most intimate feelings, we need the ‘special’ person to make a difference in our life, someone to fall back upon at our bad times, someone ‘special’ for whom you would always want to go back home…. These are just feelings which a person experiences when he / she is in love……

Love is one of the most beautiful feelings which person can experience in life…. Thinking of your partner brings a smile on your face, makes you care for the person at any situation she undergoes, when one message on the phone makes your day, the day is incomplete without talking to her. You cannot just keep your phone down without talking to her for hours, you can fall back at her at any situation in life, the time spent with her always seems to be short. Love changes our life, into one of the most beautiful feeling God has created… For every important decision in life, you would want her share of decision also, wishing that at the end of the day we lived happily with our loving partner. You wish that you had met her a little earlier in life, in order to spend more time with her… The feeling of ‘love’ is so strong that it motivates you to make her yours in life, overcoming any amount of problems, which you encounter in your journey of life… You are ready to take any challenge in life, whether its studying hard ahead for your future, convincing parents for accepting your loved one in your family etc.. It makes a person strong, more responsible and dedicated, in order to make your life complete along with your partner. At the end of the day, a smile on her face, just melts you down, compelling you to forget any problem/ bad situation in life… The smile on her face just makes your life worth living…..

In a coin, there are two sides, the same is with love, there is a good side, and there is a adverse side also. When your loved one leaves you, there is a kind of zeroed feeling that happens in your heart. Life seems to stop for a while; there is always a hope in mind that you could get back with the person you loved. Then it is somehow a run to correct all the mistakes you had realized you did in the relationship. This teaches you a lot, as to how you could improve a relationship, love your partner, and care for her. However, when you realize that you can never get her back, life just seems to loose worth living. You fail to see the colors of life, the hope just dies down. You get scared to get into any kind of relationship, the fear of failure just haunts you now and then… It takes years to resurrect to where you were before the relationship happened to you. Sometimes it happens fast, but in some cases it may take time, may be even 2 years to resurrect to what you were… however, it varies to each individual… However, once you get back to life, these lessons just help you go ahead well in your life… There are times when your heart feels lonely, but still there remains a hope that someday , somewhere you will find your someone ‘special’ in life.. It is those feelings that keeps you going and enjoy the most wonderful feeling of love… The lessons that you learnt earlier help you to protect the relationship in the best possible way… You understand the sensitivity of any situation, which you may not have realized in the earlier relation. However, you still have insecurity somewhere within yourself, which makes you give you’re everything to nurture the relationship, to love the person, to care for her, to bring that one smile on her face that just makes your life worth living….

Love is a wonderful feeling, which needs to be preserved and enjoyed every moment…. The lessons help you nurture your relationship in the best way in order to make love the most beautiful feeling…..