ThE BiG SiZe EvEnT-- LIFE

Sometimes life seems to be very very difficult. I used to wonder at times that how difficult life is, the problems never seem to be ending, relations never seem to build up with utmost satisfaction, the person you like and love never seemed to trust you, your friends seem to be doubtful about your relation….although with one of the best jobs in hand, still not contented with it…..

You give your 100% for everything you want in life….. When in college as a dedicated student, the person just dedicates his/her time and energy to get the maximum marks out of all the hard work that he /she put in… to just realize that may be it was not enough, as some people are just born smart or had a very systematic approach to studies right from childhood, while at that time the other person was busy carving his life to be an all –rounder with a good performance on sports, music and studies sometimes….. Anyway you get the ultimate happiness when all the hardwork in school and college shows up in your work life.. People know you and respect you for who you are, not only for the academics in college…. The BIG event called life always has something to look forward in life, may be at times the person felt, why the hell should I work so hard, to ultimately land up in low paying / unsatisfying job, but he/ she should always remember, LIFE does not end at a particular time, it just takes off from every moment you think the time has stopped…..

In personal life, I always wondered, why the person he/she loves does not trust the partner, is it a search for a new partner or due to a high dissatisfaction level the relationship or is it the nature of the partner or lack of trust on the partner… I never got an answer to this question.. its still an unanswered question…. The impact on the other person is very adverse, he/she looses the confidence and trust in any relation… It’s the fear of breaking a relationship that refrains the person to ever get into any kind of relation whether its love, friendship etc… There are some situations in your life when your close friends fail to understand your problems, situations in which they never seem to trust you… Instances when your close friends fight, and you try to work hard to keep both of them and encourage them to get back, only to realize that may be you may be forgotten later. Its such situations in life that make you weak, feeble and helpless….. Again this event called LIFE has always taught you how to be strong, aggressive ad look forward to the best times which are left in life…. Relations have to be treated with utmost care and hard work….. These are the things which make our life worth living….. At the end of the day, there are so many events in life which we have to look forward for, instances when your best friend needs you to be there in phases of his/her problems, happiness etc., when you start liking someone hoping that some day you will get the love of your life, when your presence brings a smile on a few faces , even though its only one. These are some instances , EVENTS which make a LIFE A BIG EVENT…… Its really a event of happiness, which we should enjoy, cherish and look forward to each and every moment…